Monday August 31 2020
A comment from a student writing his reflection on Emerso
Living by good character may lead to disapproval by others, but pleasing others’ is not the main goal in life
That reminded me of a song by Ricky Nelson. Ricky was the real life son of Ozzie and Harriett Nelson. The family was featured ina tv show from 1952 to 1966 The Adventures of Ozzie and Harriett. Like Father Knows Best and Leave it to Beaver and later The Brady Bunch, it told the seemingly impossible story of Anglo families living the perfect American life in the perfect American Sub
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Adventures_of_Ozzie_and_Harriet
Note this show was popular throughout the bull market of 1948-66 getting kicked off as the Korean conflict ended. It was popular as it reflected the social mood of the time.
Ricky became a musician and Ozzie a former big band leader, literally invented the music video. He cut the half hour TV show sort and inserted a video like this of RIcky singing thereby boosting the show ratings and RIcky's career.
Here is Mary Lou referred to in Garden Party
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zLkCWT2neuI
But Ricky moved on as musical tastes did as well. Here is doing Honky Tonk Woman, a Rolling Stones hit, on the piano, I did not even know he played the piano!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mk2L7p9Gtow
Eventually he played Madison Square Garden. The group that showed up no longer knew him. The result was the song Garden Party, his last mega hit.
But singing to across the decades, he is saying the same thing Emerson tells us across more than a Century, which is this
But it's all right now
I learned my lesson well
You see, ya can't please everyone
So ya got to please yourself
Postscript
Tragically Ricky died in the crash of a DC 3 he had bought from Jerry Lee Lewis. And so he added to the list of musicians who passed from this world.
Buddy Holly, The Big Bopper, Richie Valens all died in the same crash, subject of the song Bye Bye American Pie.
Also Patsy Cline and Jim Croche would meet similar fates. I suspect that is why today musicians travel by custom bus.
"Garden Party"
I went to a garden party
To reminisce with my old friends
A chance to share old memories
And play our songs again
When I got to the garden party
They all knew my name
No one recognized me
I didn't look the same
But it's all right now
I learned my lesson well
You see, ya can't please everyone
So ya got to please yourself
People came from miles around
Everyone was there
Yoko brought her walrus
There was magic in the air
'N' over in the corner
Much to my surprise
Mr Hughes hid in Dylan's shoes
Wearing his disguise
But it's all right now
I learned my lesson well
You see, ya can't please everyone
So ya got to please yourself
Lott-in-dah-dah
lot-in-dah-dah-dah
Played them all the old songs
Thought that's why they came
No one heard the music
We didn't look the same
I said hello to "Mary Lou"
She belongs to me
When I sang a song about a honky-tonk
It was time to leave
But it's all right now
I learned my lesson well
You see, ya can't please everyone
So ya got to please yourself
Lot-dah-dah (lot-dah-dah-dah)
Lot-in-dah-dah-dah
Someone opened up a closet door
And out stepped Johnny B Goode
Playing guitar
Like a-ringin' a bell
And lookin' like he should
If you gotta play at garden parties
I wish you a lotta luck
But if memories were all I sang
I rather drive a truck
But it's all right now
I learned my lesson well
You see, ya can't please everyone
So ya got to please yourself
Lot-dah-dah (lot-dah-dah-dah)
Lot-in-dah-dah-dah
'N' it's all right now
Learned my lesson well
You see, ya can't please everyone
So you got to please yourself